Recently I saw a blog where a whiny woman was angry with her father. She took herself to putting all her father’s sins on display. Everything he had done against her that she could think of seemed to be put out there for the world to see. Sure, maybe he did some bad things. Maybe they should be taken to the law. I don’t know. But one thing I do know is that she’s walking around just like Ham who saw his father’s sin and then went around telling everyone. Honoring one’s parents is very important. It promises blessings. When one dishonors their parents it promises curses. We must be like Shem and Japheth who turned their backs and covered their father’s nakedness. They honored him, even though he wasn’t perfect. They covered his sin. The exact opposite of what this woman is doing.
One thing that did surprise me was how many people feel bad for her. Ham’s son Canaan was severely cursed for what his father did. Many generations were cursed because of this folly. Maybe the situation is bad. But disobeying the express command to honor one’s parents is much worse. Honor takes different forms. Maybe wisdom says to stay away. If they are murdering and raping people on the weekends you are called by the Word of God to be a witness against them. But do we run around laying out their sins for the world to see? No, no, no, no, no. And I pray I never fall into this myself with any of my family or friends.
I struggle with honor. I like to think I’m right all the time, an intellectual pride. But I need to honor. I feel it’s so important. So many lives are ruined by the dishonor of parents. Fornication, robberies, murdering, etc.. Yet we still see the rebellion against authority as a good thing.
Let’s be ones who are honorable. Trustworthy friends that others can rely on should be our goal. It’s pretty rare nowadays.