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Different People – Day 112

I love my family and church. It’s built of many different parts and pieces. People, they’re so fun. They all look different. They all have different personalities. It’s fantastic and exciting. So many gifts, so many talents. It’s like putting together a person. It’s made up of different people with different thoughts and different dreams. It’s never going to be perfect. Just like when you look at a person you can always find things you hate about them. Some people are just uglier than others. And then some people look more beautiful to one while uglier to another. But in the end, it’s normally better to be part of a body than hanging out by yourself in a cave.

I truly do feel blessed.

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Laughter – Day 111

Sometimes it feels that laughter is the best medicine. Yet, instead we stress out and worry. Take a load off and laugh a little.

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Mother’s Day Quote – Day 110

A mother’s happiness is like a beacon, lighting up the future but reflected also on the past in the guise of fond memories. ~Honoré de Balzac

One good mother is worth a hundred schoolmasters. ~George Herbert

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Happy Mother’s Day – Day 109

As I sit, I see on my left side mothers taking care of their babies and loving them even when they’ve been screaming in their ear for the past twenty minutes and it reminds me that I was that same way as a tiny baby. (Except I screamed for 6 months straight as I understand. ;-P ) 

All of us at one time or another have been children. We all have mothers.

I look to my right hand side and see a 7 year old boy with a candy bar clenched in his hand.  His mom tells him to put it back. He runs around screaming “I want it!”

Motherly love is amazing. The love that gives until there’s nothing left to give.  

I look behind me and I see a 12 year old girl crossing her arms and refusing to respond to her mom when she reproves her for something. 

I see so much disrespect for mothers. So little appreciation. 

Then as I turn to look at my computer again I look up and see an older son rolling his eyes as his mother tells him to pull his pants above his knees. 

Thank you mom. And you don’t deserve only one day a year. Every day you give of yourself so much. You had me, you’ve fed me, you’ve reproved me, you’ve given so much, and love much, and yet I struggle to honor you from day to day. 

Thank you. I love you.

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Awkward – Day 108

Most people don’t like awkward moments. Yet their typically the most fun to laugh at later. Irony.

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Faithfulness Before Marriage – Day #107

Ninety five percent of Americans have pre-marital sex. That’s a pretty rough statistic. We place marriage at such a low standard. What’s the point of getting married? Statistics show that when one has pre-marital sex with a future marriage partner, the marriage is almost twice as likely to end in divorce. Also, women are 62x more likely to receive abuse from a live-in boyfriend than a husband.  However, statistics mean very little to people.

Pleasure is the name of the game now. It’s all about now. I want pleasure now. I want someone to love me now. 

Well, sex before marriage isn’t love. It’s lust. True love is the ability to give oneself fully when those vows have been said, the rings are in place, and the kiss seals it. God created sex to happen in a marriage, and in a marriage I see beauty in it. Outside of marriage, there’s absolutely no benefit that I can see in it.

Premarital sex isn’t the only thing that’s the problem. The average woman in the UK kisses 22 guys before getting married.  Sure, she didn’t sleep with all of them., but it’s that giving herself away piece by piece that slowly destroys a woman. As she gives herself away emotionally and physically, there’s a part that she can never fully give to her spouse. The little images and memories of previously broken relationships just don’t disappear.

It’s our job as unmarried young men to honor women and not ask for that emotional commitment, especially if we’re not ready to get married. If you’re some 17 year old with no job and no maturity, then don’t go around acting like you’re god’s gift to women.

I honestly don’t know what advice to give to girls, but I’ll just say what is a stumbling block to most guys: Our culture says to dress sensually. Ride that dress up your leg. Pull that neckline down. Guys tend to be very visual.  They notice things. They look and they lust. Why do you think pornography is a monumental struggle for men? It’s difficult for men in our culture, and it doesn’t help when girls around us are displaying their bodies in such a way as to trip up men. Clothes are wonderful, and they can go together really well.  Sadly, some guys will lust after anything, but there is a responsibility to not try to stumble a brother in Christ.

Our end goal in all of our pursuits should be to serve Christ and strive to glorify him more and more each day. 

Sincerely,
Someone With Very Little Maturity or Knowledge. 🙂
P.S. Let me know what you think. Agree? Disagree? Better application? Different applications? Let me know in the comments down below. 😀

P.S.S. I’ll add a pic of the day later. Posting on my phone…

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Humility – Day 106

Philippians 2
1If there be therefore any consolation in Christ, if any comfort of love, if any fellowship of the Spirit, if any bowels and mercies,
2Fulfil ye my joy, that ye be likeminded, having the same love, being of one accord, of one mind.
3Let nothing be done through strife or vainglory; but in lowliness of mind let each esteem other better than themselves.
4Look not every man on his own things, but every man also on the things of others.
5Let this mind be in you, which was also in Christ Jesus:
6Who, being in the form of God, thought it not robbery to be equal with God:
7But made himself of no reputation, and took upon him the form of a servant, and was made in the likeness of men:
8And being found in fashion as a man, he humbled himself, and became obedient unto death, even the death of the cross.
9Wherefore God also hath highly exalted him, and given him a name which is above every name:
10That at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, of things in heaven, and things in earth, and things under the earth;
11And that every tongue should confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father.

Paul starts out here by explaining to us that for the Philippians to be likeminded they should be of one accord and one mind. And one of the ways that happens is by letting nothing be driven by pride and esteeming others higher than himself.

Proverbs 27:2
Let another praise you, and not your own mouth; someone else, and not your own lips.

Most conflicts in our families and churches are going to be driven by pride. This doesn’t mean there shouldn’t be debates and edifying conversation where we are sharpening one another. Proverbs 27:17 “Iron sharpeneth iron; so a man sharpeneth the countenance of his friend.”

This is an important thing to remember. Humility will be trying to sharpen the countenance of our friend while pride will try to take our friend’s sword and plunge it into him. One large part of humility is humbling yourself and exalting others.

Then in verse 4 of Philippians he tells people to stop looking at all things they’ve done and instead look at what others are doing and honoring them for what they’re doing.

Matthew 23:12
For whoever exalts himself will be humbled, and whoever humbles himself will be exalted.

The tendency is to become proud when we’re doing a lot. We make the most money, we have the biggest library, we’ve gone to seminary, or anything that will give us that edge over others. But if we humble ourselves and instead are always looking to push others up and admire their accomplishments, then the tendency is not to get proud but be encouraging and pushing others. When we’re in a group of people that are constantly pushing others to do better and encouraging them in their works we’ll grow together and hopefully up.

Then Paul in verse 5-7 continues with saying that this was Christ’s mind. Christ is God and yet came to this earth in the form of one of his creations. And he didn’t come as a ruling king who cam with horses and chariots. He came into the world in a stable. He showed himself to be a servant. Christ was the one who got down and washed the feet of his disciples. Here’s the God of the universe washing the feet of his disciples. What are we doing?

Matthew 18:3-4
And he said: “I tell you the truth, unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven. Therefore, whoever humbles himself like this child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven.

Mark 9:35
Sitting down, Jesus called the Twelve and said, “If anyone wants to be first, he must be the very last, and the servant of all.”

Verses 8 – 9. He showed the ultimate humility and came down as a man and even died for our sakes. And then he was raised up and exalted. This is also promised to us in Scripture when we humble ourselves. When we are humble, God exalts us.

Proverbs 11:2
When pride comes, then comes disgrace, but with humility comes wisdom.

Proverbs 3:34
He mocks proud mockers but gives grace to the humble.

Psalms 138:6
Though the LORD is on high, he looks upon the lowly, but the proud he knows from afar.

Psalms 147:6
The LORD sustains the humble but casts the wicked to the ground.

Proverbs 22:4
Humility and the fear of the LORD bring wealth and honor and life.

Psalms 37:11
But the meek will inherit the land and enjoy great peace

We see here that God will bless the humble man and curse the proud man. We hear a constant message from the world about how we need to be proud. Be proud of your school. Be proud of your accomplishments. We should be proud of our country. But here God shows the exact opposite. God will disgrace and cast the proud to the ground. But he will sustain the humble. He’ll bless him with wisdom. He will give him the land and give him peace. And most important, he’ll save the humble man.

Psalms 149:4
For the LORD takes delight in his people; he crowns the humble with salvation.

Finally, in verses 10-11 Paul touches on how every knee shall bow and how every tongue confess the name of Christ. Our God and Savior humbled himself to save us. We have no option but to humble ourselves and follow the example of Christ.

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Posting Fast! – Day 105

Sorry guys I got distracted, so I have to post this in under 3 minutes.

One thing that I’ve been thinking about lately.

Selfishness is never fulfilling. Sure, you may get some junk and save yourself some hassle in the short term. But in the long term it’s never fulfilling.

It’s hard to think long term. Our flesh wants things now. We want, want, want. You need to take those reins and say Whoa!!!

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Press On – Day 104

It’s when things get tough that you prove who you are. When things don’t go as planned and things start to fall apart it’s at that point that will show who you are to those around you. At some point you can’t just give up and say it’s over. Of course there are times that you will say this. But there are other times that prove your character and will show to others where your character stands at this point in time.

Good night all. 🙂

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Sunday Quote – Day 103

Humility is the foundation of all the other virtues hence, in the soul in which this virtue does not exist there cannot be any other virtue except in mere appearance. – Saint Augustine

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